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The Solemnity of Memorial Day: Why “Happy” Isn’t the Right Sentiment

Understanding and Respecting the True Meaning of This Important Observance

Jane Grismer
2 min readMay 30, 2023
[ photo: Justin Casey ]

Upon leaving a restaurant last night, the hostess said, “Have a very happy Memorial Day!”

Happy? What’s happy about Memorial Day?

Ironically, our group was gathered to organize events honoring our fallen heroes — for Memorial Day.

Since then — less than 24 hours ago — I’ve noticed so many others saying or posting those words. Happy Memorial Day.

It’s not a happy day. It’s not a celebration. It’s anything but.

People aren’t being heartless; they’re just programmed via news media, mattress commercials, and cookouts.

Memorial Day is a day to honor the men and women who have made the ultimate sacrifice in service of their country.

It commemorates all those who died while serving in the United States Armed Forces and honors those who continue to serve today.

Honoring our veterans is reserved for Veterans Day.

But Memorial Day allows Americans to reflect on those individuals' heroism and recognize the grief of those who have lost someone in the war.

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Jane Grismer
Jane Grismer

Written by Jane Grismer

Writer | Designer | Productivity + Empowerment Coach✨ Helping You Master Focus + Skill Stacking | ADHD 🦋

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