Time Remembered: Lessons in Healing and Legacy

This past week has been a poignant reminder of the fleeting nature of time and the enduring impact of those we hold dear.

To handle one of the final chapters of my father’s passing, my brother traveled nearly 900 miles to where I live. Together, we undertook the emotionally charged task of sorting through our late father’s belongings.

This process was more than just a physical sorting; it was an emotional journey through the memories and values our father left behind.

Our father was an extraordinary man, a blend of humor, thoughtfulness, and wisdom, making him the most interesting person I’ve ever known. His life was a testament to the power of living fully, embracing each moment with laughter and love.

As my brother and I shared stories and memories, I was struck by the realization of how much our father had shaped us, and the preciousness of the time we spent together.

After his visit, I attended my last session of group grief counseling, where I brought a box of items symbolizing my dad’s legacy. Among these was an old-fashioned timepiece, a symbol of time’s relentless march and a reminder of the mistaken belief that our loved ones will always be with us.

This realization was bittersweet, highlighting the importance of cherishing every…